When it comes to abundance and prosperity, expectations are vitally important. The Law of Attraction teaches us that we tend to receive exactly what we expect in life. Why is this? How do expectations work with the Law of Attraction?
If you’ve studied the Law of Attraction at all, you know that your thoughts and emotions release an energetic frequency out to the Universe. Whatever is vibrating at this same frequency will be pulled into your reality. If you emit low vibrations like anger, fear, or cynicism, you will attract corresponding experiences and events. If you emit high vibrations like joy, love, and passion, you will again attract corresponding experiences and events.
Another important part of this process, however, involves your expectations. Perhaps you can remember expecting something that did indeed happen. Sometimes we do this in a positive way: “Today is going to be a great day, I just know it!” and sometimes we do it in a negative way: “Ugh - today is going to be ‘one of those days’.”Expectations can be powerful, especially if they are backed up with firm conviction and unwavering faith.
Below you’ll find some simple tips to help you learn to expect the best – and get it!
• First, you must choose to expect the best in every situation. This will be challenging if you don’t have full control of your thoughts yet. If you haven’t developed a strong focus, you’ll probably keep vacillating back and forth between random thoughts and focused thoughts until you train your mind. Simply keep at it! Keep saying things like, “I know this is going to work out for the best,” or “I know I will turn this situation to my advantage somehow,” or “I expect the best and the best always comes to me!”
• Avoid negative talk like the plague. By “negative talk” I mean complaining, arguing, or doom predictions – anything that drags down your emotions and contradicts your positive expectations. If other people try to engage you in negative talk, you may have to be firm to avoid it. You might also need to limit the amount of time you spend with negative people. Try to always phrase your statements in a positive way. Instead of saying, “This won’t be easy,” say, “I can handle this.”
• KNOW that your expectation will come true. You may wonder how to “know” when you really don’t know yet! If it hasn’t happened yet, how can you be sure it will? This type of knowing is based solely on faith. You are CHOOSING to know. It might take awhile to get comfortable with this, but once you do it becomes a lot easier.
In order to really know, you’re going to have to completely banish doubt and disbelief from your mind. When they pop up, simply push them out of your mind and affirm again that you KNOW your expectation will happen.These three simple things can make a world of difference in your ability to attract what you want, and when the actualizations start showing up in your life, you’ll be able to add that much more faith and confidence to your expectations – which will make them still more effective!
How many of us really know what they want? If we were given 3 wishes from Aladin's lamp how many of us could choose wisely?
Most of us would use the Laws of Attractions to wish for and attract
1) Good Health
2) Financial Security
3) Loving family, friends and environment
Let's look at what's wrong with this picture. If you were given everything in life that you wanted you would not be able to survive when a problem appears in that area.
If everyone had good health then there would be no reason to learn why the body works, how to cure illnesses, new cures for diseases. Actually that would be wonderful, but if we had all our wishes fullfilled, we'd have nothing to strive for, no reason to try and better ourselves, no decisions on how to create good health.
Having financial security is what most of us wish for. Never having to worry about bills, financial problems, the ability to retire early so we can do what we want, when we want to do it. Having financial security would be great, but if everyone were financially secure then there would be no one to work, no reason to get college degrees, no reason to increase our mental abilities in the hopes of becoming wealthier.
To have a loving family, friends and environment would be like manna from heaven. Most families are disfunctional; parents divorce, and long time friends move on to newer exciting friends. The environment is in a state of decay because of environmental issues such as air and water pollution, and most of us have little money because almost every item we purchase has a tax on it.
So how can we use the Laws of Attraction to help us get what we want?
The universe has problems in place that need to be solved. This can be looked at as a hinderance or a opportunity. Where there is a problem to be solved perhaps you can use the Law of Attraction to solve it.
As an example, you want to use the Laws of Attraction to gain financial security, but in most cases we have to pay for what we get in this universe. I trade time to fix your problem and you provide financial remunication for this service.
I use the Laws of Attraction to advertise my services to you in places you might look. I might find your website on the web and see your problem and knowing how to fix it, I might email you to say I have a solution to your problem. You in turn are attracted to this solution because your website will be working when I fix it. A working website means more peolple will visit and probably financial gain for you if you are selling a product on that page. This is using the Laws of Attraction but also using actions to attract financial gain into both our lives. The universe likes an equal trade.
You might use the Laws of Attraction to gain good health. Again the universe likes an equal trade, so you might spend mental time planning a good healthful diet and then implementing a physical training plan and then putting that plan into place. You are trading time and physical energy for good health. That is a good trade for the universe.
Why are there people who move from good health into bad health? Some say bad habits are the cause of some of these problems. Excessive smoking, drinking, bad diet, no excersize might be the start of a decline of good health, and yet there are others that say they do all of the above and have no serious health problems yet. Do some of us have more luck than others?
Life is not fair, you can be a good, conscientious person with good habits and still end up sick. The environment plays a part in this as some illnesses are spread through the air and some illnesses into the soil without your knowledge. Arsenic in the soil goes into the water. A person sneezing into the air passes his germs onto those nearest him.
The Laws of Attraction works even with environmental concerns but you need to trade time learning about the problems with the environment so that you might knowingly stay away from these types of problems. You are thinking of good health, and knowingly choosing the correct place to live that have fewer problems with theses environmental concerns. Again some people think you only need think these types of thoughts and your vibrations move you towards better situations. Others believe thought and action is a better solution.
You might use the Laws of Attraction to gain a more loving family and friends but again there has to be a fair trade in order for this to happen. They say love begets love, and friendship is the act of give and take. People are emotional beings and will judge you not only on first appearances (what you look like) but also on how they feel about you (we feel emotional vibrations that correspond to our vibrations) and what they sense is a vibrational match or not. Again every room has an environmental vibrational aspect to it also, so there are many factors we respond to. Sometimes how we physically feel at the time will affect how we feel about others. If the room is too hot, we might be cranky and not our usual selves. If it is too cold, we might be quieter than we usually are. If the sun is shining we might feel happier and therefore our vibrations might reflect a happier, positive mood. How we feel about ourselves sometimes affects how we react to friends and family.
To use the Laws of Attraction remember the universe likes a good trade. Positive vibrations creates positive vibrations. People are drawn to the positive. We are all seeking good, happy experiences in this life, but the reality is that we need to be able to solve the problems that the universe sends us. If we can think of positive ways to solve our problems then we can use the Law of Attractions Expectation Law. Expectation is when you expect that what you set out to do will succeed. You can expect to attract success into your life, especially if you make a good trade with the universe. If you solve a problem for the universe, it will solve a problem for you.
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