Know What You Really Want

How many of us really know what they want? If we were given 3 wishes from Aladin's lamp how many of us could choose wisely?

Most of us would use the Laws of Attractions to wish for and attract
1) Good Health
2) Financial Security
3) Loving family, friends and environment

Let's look at what's wrong with this picture. If you were given everything in life that you wanted you would not be able to survive when a problem appears in that area.

If everyone had good health then there would be no reason to learn why the body works, how to cure illnesses, new cures for diseases. Actually that would be wonderful, but if we had all our wishes fullfilled, we'd have nothing to strive for, no reason to try and better ourselves, no decisions on how to create good health.

Having financial security is what most of us wish for. Never having to worry about bills, financial problems, the ability to retire early so we can do what we want, when we want to do it. Having financial security would be great, but if everyone were financially secure then there would be no one to work, no reason to get college degrees, no reason to increase our mental abilities in the hopes of becoming wealthier.

To have a loving family, friends and environment would be like manna from heaven. Most families are disfunctional; parents divorce, and long time friends move on to newer exciting friends. The environment is in a state of decay because of environmental issues such as air and water pollution, and most of us have little money because almost every item we purchase has a tax on it.

So how can we use the Laws of Attraction to help us get what we want?
The universe has problems in place that need to be solved. This can be looked at as a hinderance or a opportunity. Where there is a problem to be solved perhaps you can use the Law of Attraction to solve it.

As an example, you want to use the Laws of Attraction to gain financial security, but in most cases we have to pay for what we get in this universe. I trade time to fix your problem and you provide financial remunication for this service.

I use the Laws of Attraction to advertise my services to you in places you might look. I might find your website on the web and see your problem and knowing how to fix it, I might email you to say I have a solution to your problem. You in turn are attracted to this solution because your website will be working when I fix it. A working website means more peolple will visit and probably financial gain for you if you are selling a product on that page. This is using the Laws of Attraction but also using actions to attract financial gain into both our lives. The universe likes an equal trade.

You might use the Laws of Attraction to gain good health. Again the universe likes an equal trade, so you might spend mental time planning a good healthful diet and then implementing a physical training plan and then putting that plan into place. You are trading time and physical energy for good health. That is a good trade for the universe.

Why are there people who move from good health into bad health? Some say bad habits are the cause of some of these problems. Excessive smoking, drinking, bad diet, no excersize might be the start of a decline of good health, and yet there are others that say they do all of the above and have no serious health problems yet. Do some of us have more luck than others?

Life is not fair, you can be a good, conscientious person with good habits and still end up sick. The environment plays a part in this as some illnesses are spread through the air and some illnesses into the soil without your knowledge. Arsenic in the soil goes into the water. A person sneezing into the air passes his germs onto those nearest him.

The Laws of Attraction works even with environmental concerns but you need to trade time learning about the problems with the environment so that you might knowingly stay away from these types of problems. You are thinking of good health, and knowingly choosing the correct place to live that have fewer problems with theses environmental concerns. Again some people think you only need think these types of thoughts and your vibrations move you towards better situations. Others believe thought and action is a better solution.

You might use the Laws of Attraction to gain a more loving family and friends but again there has to be a fair trade in order for this to happen. They say love begets love, and friendship is the act of give and take. People are emotional beings and will judge you not only on first appearances (what you look like) but also on how they feel about you (we feel emotional vibrations that correspond to our vibrations) and what they sense is a vibrational match or not. Again every room has an environmental vibrational aspect to it also, so there are many factors we respond to. Sometimes how we physically feel at the time will affect how we feel about others. If the room is too hot, we might be cranky and not our usual selves. If it is too cold, we might be quieter than we usually are. If the sun is shining we might feel happier and therefore our vibrations might reflect a happier, positive mood. How we feel about ourselves sometimes affects how we react to friends and family.

To use the Laws of Attraction remember the universe likes a good trade. Positive vibrations creates positive vibrations. People are drawn to the positive. We are all seeking good, happy experiences in this life, but the reality is that we need to be able to solve the problems that the universe sends us. If we can think of positive ways to solve our problems then we can use the Law of Attractions Expectation Law. Expectation is when you expect that what you set out to do will succeed. You can expect to attract success into your life, especially if you make a good trade with the universe. If you solve a problem for the universe, it will solve a problem for you.